“It was the best of times, it was the worst of times, it was the age of wisdom, it was the age of foolishness, it was the epoch of belief, it was the epoch of incredulity, it was the season of Light, it was the season of Darkness, it was the spring of hope, it was the winter of despair, we had everything before us, we had nothing before us…”
These famous opening lines by Charles Dickens perfectly summarize the year 2023 for me. 2023 marks so many of my personal and relationship milestones and I am so glad to have spent a good part of it among family. It brought back so many fond memories from my early years of marriage and also some much needed grandparent-time for the kids. However, the winter was definitely one of despair as I struggled with a strange sickness that revealed itself to be autoimmune, chronic, and mostly without a cure (but quite manageable, thankfully). But nothing prevents me from getting high on the Christmas and New Year spirit around me and find joy in the year that was spent well.
Let me evaluate how I fared in my goals this year. I had eight of them – early bedtime, step out of the house, control sugar, no new hobbies, read more memoirs and science books, 365 little things, stay in touch with friends and family and learn some one-pot meals. The kids and the school made it easy for me to meet my first two. My sugar intake, however, (color me embarrassed), in the name of introducing my mom-in-law to a variety of foods (especially desserts), I went on a sugar spree during the early fall and I am not really proud of it. So, there you go, I failed this and failed miserably. This definitely stays on the list for the next year. Moving on, no new hobbies, yes, I am glad I did not actively acquire a new hobby this year. I worked a bit on my writing, some singing, a little bit of drawing here and there, and of course, read some challenging books and took my time with the ones I loved. It helped that the summer was packed with activity, outdoors and I rarely found time to even think and write, let alone get a new hobby or acquire new material. (So no Cricut, Copics or craft paper purchases this year, and I am so very happy).
A review of my year in reading would need a separate post, and here it goes.
Now, the 365 little things, yes, this one was very loosely defined and I didn’t really work on it much. I should probably define it very clearly early on to make any meaningful attempts towards this goal. Maybe in 2024. Same goes for my 10 one-pot meals too.
Staying in touch with friends and family – I did my best to be a good friend and call or text as regularly as possible and I was surprised to find it trickle back to me in multiple ways. There were definitely some elusive friends and sometimes I was the elusive one given my circumstances, there are definitely a few that are far away and I should still find ways to stay connected with, but I am happy I am taking the time and thankful there are others who would do the same for me. I am grateful for all the friendships – big and small, long-distance and next-door; grateful for the small-talk, support, a shared smile or even just a wave of hi from across the street or across the globe.
All in all – I should really work on my health and fitness goals but I am quite happy with the others.
Goals aside, this year somehow didn’t feel like it slipped through like sand between my fingers. I felt and experienced each and every moment and made some great memories. I enjoyed traveling with family, movie nights and tending to a full house all summer. There were many highs, definitely some lows and days I was not on my best of behaviors/moods. But yet, I found kindness, love and fun and I embraced it with all my heart and am happy to pay it forward. Hoping for an equally full 2024.
How was your 2023? How did you do with your goals for the year? What was something you truly enjoyed? Please share.
Wishing you all a wonderful holiday and a very happy new year!